tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post3001236015779831436..comments2023-06-03T07:04:14.438-07:00Comments on Hamlet's Mistress: Talk to me TuesdayHamlet's Mistresshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11365711349960256915noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post-4077310495348289772010-09-08T05:29:47.000-07:002010-09-08T05:29:47.000-07:00I sat here and thought and thought. I don't th...I sat here and thought and thought. I don't think I'm holding on to anything. I try very hard not to do so. I think probably the thing I do more is hold on to the hurts I gave to other people. You know what I mean? Like my senior year of high school, I wanted this one new guy (who was kind of dorky) to ask me to homecoming and then he did and I decided I didn't want to go with him so I told him I'd think about it. And then my friend Brian asked me to go with him right in front of the other guy and I said yes. Man, I still feel bad about that. And the dorky guy? Yeah, he probably doesn't even remember me.<br><br>I understand your situation though. I would totally want to know. And she owes you an explanation. A good one.<br><br>♥SpotSpothttp://www.whatpassesforsaneonacrazyday.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post-34644087919765898202010-09-08T06:45:19.000-07:002010-09-08T06:45:19.000-07:00I agree with Spot. Just let your aunt know that th...I agree with Spot. Just let your aunt know that there's something that's bothering you and you feel unable to move forward without talking about it. It sucks and there may be drama and tears, but it will give you closure. Which is sooooo much better. <br><br>I think everyone by this point is holding onto things. I can go from peaceful to blinding rage if my biological father (who i finally had the balls to mention on my blog) is brought up. But though I give you advice to seek closure, my situation is just that I want to be left alone, and to break my silence after years will have proved him right that provoking me would cause a response.Txtingmrdarcyhttp://txtingmrdarcy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post-28922263752487058462010-09-08T07:08:20.000-07:002010-09-08T07:08:20.000-07:00Spot - This is so true. I think often of things I...Spot - This is so true. I think often of things I've said or done to hurt people. Mostly to my mom during my teenaged angsty years which she and I have both put behind us a long time ago, but I still think of them from time to time and just feel so ashamed. <br><br>TMD - I was surprised when I read about your bio-father on your blog. Kind of like "Wha-??? Who??? Wait, huh??" But I'm glad you shared. <br><br>I don't know that I'll ever have the metaphorical balls to woman up and confront my aunt. Maybe someday. <br><br>I could have written a whole post about my sister-in-law as well... but that's for another day. <br><br>I have grudge issues... apparently... <br><br>HMhamletsmistresshttp://hamletsmistress.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post-5088731376183255822010-09-10T07:41:16.000-07:002010-09-10T07:41:16.000-07:00Let's add Army Boy's uncle to the list... ...Let's add Army Boy's uncle to the list... We thought that having him perform our wedding ceremony would be meaningful and keep our day family-oriented. He acted like it was a big hassle and made all kinds of demands until we finally were like "FORGET IT. ALSO, SCREW OFF." (only much nicer.)<br><br>Only to receive an email back saying that he felt the need to impress upon us that Army Boy get counseling because of his "life journey." Which is bullshit Mennonite-speak for "you joined the Army, I'm not ok with that. You got a divorce, I'm not ok with that either. You also got engaged after a year of dating, and i'm going to judge that as well."<br><br>ASS.HOLE. Everyone (in my family) advises we ignore him because he's just a jerk and wants to provoke a response or debate. I want to rip him a new asshole.Txtingmrdarcyhttp://txtingmrdarcy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1425030288963774520.post-62051550464695696212010-09-10T13:14:54.000-07:002010-09-10T13:14:54.000-07:00are you effing KIDDING me?? What an HONOR for you...are you effing KIDDING me?? What an HONOR for you to have asked him and he comes back with that kind of crap?? I can't believe that. He should have jumped at the chance to marry you guys! ASS. HOLE only scratches the surface. Counseling for the both of you is a great idea before the wedding. we did it and it actually wasn't a waste of time, but for him to come at AB like that? unacceptable.hamletsmistresshttp://hamletsmistress.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com